Every household needs one…

Have the perfect space for a gloryhole for those casual NSA moments?

Well now you can make your own check out;


Take A Fucking Pill

Love the fact that TIM followed up with content on its website about PrEP while the buzz is out about its latest movie in it’s library.

Some feel it will be used against PrEP advancement, while others see it as yet one more aspect to consider.


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“Igays” and the end of who we were…

I think this article pionts out some big issues and opportunities for a much needed discussions that needs to happen.

I see this as a useful snapshot, and agree or not, the “a-gay, igay and entitled-gay” mentality is due for a discussion.

Read for your self:

Naked Boys Reading!

Hey Folks – if you are ready for a good night out and want to know that your admissions is going to some worthy causes – you might want to check out Naked Boys Reading!

and knowing some of the “readers”  – naked is a very good thing!

In fact along with AEF, the Immune Enhancement Project is also a beneficiary that night. This is one of the projects that Ralph Hyman, Jenna Rapues, Jaime Santos, Michael Medema and I all recently committed to working with as new board members. IEP has offered services for free, sliding scale for acupuncture and more for over 30 years right in the castro.

Man Sues Doctor For Calling ‘Homosexual Behavior’ a ‘Chronic Problem

From Edge on the Net

“Man Sues Doctor For Calling ‘Homosexual Behavior’ a ‘Chronic Problem'”
A Los Angeles gay man is suing his doctor and a Southern California healthcare network for ignoring his earlier request to remove a notation on his medical records that describe “homosexual behavior” as a “chronic problem.”

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Grindr facing a federal lawsuit

Grindr, the ubiquitous gay-hookup app, is facing a federal lawsuit from a man who claims it’s lax age-verification standards led to his arrest for having sex with a minor.

William Saponaro Jr., of Cape May, New Jersey said he was messaged by two men on Grinder looking for a sexual encounter. It was only upon his arrest a week later, Saponaro alleges, that he learned one of the men was 13 years old. He’s been charged with sexual assault and endangering the welfare of a child, and faces up to 20 years in prison.

Anthony Bourdain Speaks Out for Marriage Equality

From Edge on the Net

Today, the Human Rights Campaign (HRC), the nation’s largest lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) civil rights organization, released a video ad featuring Emmy Award-winning chef, author and TV host Anthony Bourdain for the group’s Americans for Marriage Equality campaign.

In the video, Bourdain states, “A common thread of the people I admire — whoever they are, wherever they are — are people who are proud and do things with love, and feel a sense of responsibility to others. What sensible person could be against that?”

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Are you PrEPared?

Are you PrEPared?
A community dialogue with providers, planners and members of the community on PrEP as an HIV Prevention tool:

Tuesday, September 16, 2014 5:30-8:00pm. 25 Van Ness, 6th flr. Moderated by Dr. Steven Tierney


Back hair rules

I learned a long time ago that pop culture, fashion and gay male objectification is subjective to the writer, viewer and rarely if ever allows for much deviation. So I came to terms with my own body type & hair patterns way before “bear” imagery was as visible. But I still appreciate it when others push back too.

Check out Andrew Sullivans latest on back hair.