Now this.. wasn’t any “Recipe Book” these were real people

…who made mistakes, had great loves and deep sorrows but still managed to sexual and fresh, Pat Califia’s telling of the stories captures the essence of a time when kink, fetish wasn’t just about “insert peg “A” into slot “b”. It was about the journey. The paths one took, and the understanding that you might have a theme, you could never have it so scripted as to loose the passion and element of surprise.