Meeting Men From Online
Dear CyberSex Guy
Every so often I try to get offline and actually meet someone I chat with. What’s the best way to introduce yourself to someone you know online—but never met in person? Keeping in mind, I’m hoping this we click and can take it from there… -TK
Ummm,, say hello?
OK, I am not being a smart ass here. Sometimes a simple “Hi, I’m X, its nice to finally meet in person.” is as effective as all those clever lines.
A smile while looking him in the eyes at the same time usually says the rest. One of the biggest goofs we do when trying to meet someone new, is we don’t know how to have small talk. No one wants to get right into his or your personal life. Even if you have spent hours talking smut already online.
Talk about things that you might have in common. Flirt; get a feel for where he is. Its ok to simply ask the other person— how is this going and what do they think?
The other suggestion I have it to know when to leave. There is something to that old saying that “ A lady knows when to leave the party”. Leave something for him to want to find out about you the next time you run into each other or on that date you finally get around to asking him on.
If you do click—you can be even more “vintage” and ask him out for a real date, in person!
Try it…
Tags: Dating, gay, internet, online